Sep 15, 2006

My parents are cool to visit me in Illinois

There's something truly special about a visit from your parents. It's a gesture that speaks volumes about familial bonds, love, and commitment, and I've been lucky to experience this multiple times. Despite the long, 22-hour drive from their home to mine in Illinois, my parents have made the journey not once, but four times. They've driven here twice, flown twice, and even brought their trailer on one occasion.

Sure, my home might not be the Ritz Carlton, and they've had to make do with our pull-out couch, but these small inconveniences never dampen the spirit of their visits. We always cherish their company, the shared laughs, stories, and the joy they bring, especially to their grandkids.



One visit that stands out is from September 2010 when both Mom and Dad came out after Philip, my son, was born. Their excitement and eagerness to meet their new grandchild turned their journey into a grand adventure. We spent a lovely day at the Chicago Arboretum, creating memories that we still fondly look back on.

September 2010 at the Chicago arboretum, when Both Mom and Dad came out after Philip was born.

2010 when my Mom came out by herself when Megan was on bed rest.

2009 Visit

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Summer Vacation to visit the family can be hard but are important

Assertion #1: Summer Vacation to visit the family can be hard...
Reasons to agree:

1.     It is hard to travel with kids that are younger than 2.

1.     Young kids have separation anxiety.

2.     Young kids may have problems sleeping in new places. 

2.     Kids have a hard time getting out of and into routines. 

3.     Traveling is hard

1.     Traffic can be annoying

2.     Being in a car for a long time is hard, especially for kids. It hurts my lower back.

4.     Our kids always get sick on vacation.

1.     2012

1.     J through up on a mattress, and in bed two days before we left.

2.     P through up in bed.

3.     My wife was sick, and we got a late start. 

4.     I didn't get sick until Idaho, luckily. 

5.     2-year-olds cry all the time.

Movies that agree:

1.     National Lampoons Vacation



Assertion #2: ... it is important to visit family.
Reasons to agree:

1.     It is good to try to spend time with their grandparents. Kids need as many positive relationships with safe adults as possible. Grandparents usually have love, interest, and motivation to help their children. Spending time with grandparents helps answer the question of "where did I come from", and "who am I". 

2.     Going on a family vacation can be disorienting because you get out of a routine but some times it is important to get out of a routine and look at your life differently. 

3.     When kids see their cousins they can see that people live lives 



2012

I'm writing this from my parent's place. As our family has grown in size, the economics of flying with more people has suffered. And so our 2012 Summer Vacation (AKA: Trips to see family in Idaho) started off with a 1,700-mile drive with 3 kids in a car.

Below is our adventure-packed "travel laug." 

Day 1, Drove to Nebraska

We planned to leave on Friday and drive for 11 hours. However, on Wednesday (or Thursday?) P threw up in our Bed, and J threw up on his mattress (which got thrown away). Wife wasn't feeling good and so we didn't leave till 2:30pm. We ended up driving 470 miles (8 hours) and making it to Omaha Nebraska. It turns out they had the Olympic swimming qualifications in Omaha, and some college sports, so most all of the hotels were taken. The Days-In hotel was very musty. I didn't get to sleep until after 2pm...

Day 2, Drove to Utah

We arrived in Salt Lake at 1:30am, after waiting for 2 hours in Nebraska when the Highway Patrol shut down the freeway, while they life-flighted some people away from a 6 car pile up. There were very bad winds, very hard rains. Because of all the lightning strikes, the power was out at one of the gas stations we stopped at. Garmin told us to drive up a dirt road, but we ignored it and got stuck in traffic for 2 hours.


2-hour traffic jam in Nebraska


Day 3, Drove to Nampa Idaho

We slept in @ Uncle L' house. Visited Wife's Uncle and brother, on the way to Idaho.

Day 4, Sick

I was sick and slept most of the day.
Went to fireworks @ Granny Janie's.
J stayed the night at Amy's house


Day 5, Drove to McCall Idaho

Packed up again, and headed to 
McCall.
Stopped at the Cascade Water Park to watch the kayakers surfing.


Day 6, In the woods and on a lake of Northern Idaho
My daughter and youngest son saw deer on a hike with Grandma and Grandpa.
Went on a hike with my brother.
Went with my brother and their family to see the McCall 
fire works.
Spent time on the beach



Day 7, Still in the woods
My brother and the cousins left. Read. J was bored.

Day 8, Woods
Wife cleaned on the atomic scale. Ate at My Father's Place in McCall. Went to Ponderosa State Park. Saw a deer. Returned home.

Day 9, Drove to Nampa (again), time with Family Watched Men In Black 3 with my brother (thanks Amy for watching the kids).

Day10, Family Church.
Anita Kay, Greg, and Steve's family came over. It's great that the kids got to play with their cousins.

Day11, Family Wife's mom fixed breakfast.
Used quickcrete to fill in a sinkhole in Granny Janny's yard, moved some rock, got stung by a wasp.
A quick wind storm knocked over Dad's crooked willow. We borrowed Bob Barton's chain saw to cut it up. It was probably about 1-1/2 feet across. Got stung by a 2nd wasp.
Visited with Wife Aunt and Cousin from Texas.

Day12, Dad took the tree to the dump. Only cost $4.
J wanted to fly a kite, but there was no wind. Grandma said we should fly the kite behind grandpa's ATV. It worked great. J wanted to fly the kite on the way home, but it got stuck in a tree.

Day13
Day 14
We went to Wife's uncle, Richard Chadwick's funeral. He sounds like a great guy, father, and husband. I only met him a few times. Wife and I watched his kids one time at their home in Meridian, when all the kids were little.
Dinner with Wife, my Brother, and his wife.
Softball with his church softball team.

Day 15 Went to the Zoo Boise, which was not too bad coming from Chicago. It was a great day outside (the day before had been in the hundreds).
Went to the Morrison Knudsen Nature Center. Saw a whole bunch of stuffed animals, a living deer in the parking lot, sturgeon in the pond, small and large rainbow trout, and some sort of crane or egret.
ATV w/ J and A.

Day 16 Grandma and grandpa went to a grandaughter's singing performance
Wife took the kids to visit a cousin
I got packed, and updated this

Day 17
Flew back home

2011
Steve and CoraLyn watched Pip while we took J and Ason to Yellowstone.

Steve was going to Jump Creek and took J and I with him.
Its cool taking J to some of the places that you went to when you were little.

July 2006. A 5 months old

Christmas 2004 soon after J was born (2 months old)

Aug 22, 2006

Education Reform

School Choice

Education Reform

My whole life I have been frustrated when things are not they way that I think they should be. I started a life long habit of sharing my political beliefs with a letter to the school cooks that included less than profound poetry on the quality of food served to us in the cafeteria. The letter got me kicked out of the lunch line for 1 week. A letter to my teacher on the effectiveness of her method started a back and forth corresponded into different teaching philosophy that lead me to Ivan Illich and his book De-schooling Society. This experience in 9th grade with a thick skinned English teacher lead me to a work on the details of how my school would work better whenever I became annoyed with something a teacher did brainstorm with myself new ways of addressing the problems.

I had plans of going into schooling, but in the back of my mind I could hear my uncle saying, how can you teach others how to make it in the world, until you have?

Possible Ideas for Schools

Bill or Rights

  1. No student has to do anything for a grade, that does not further his education.
  2. Students, if treated incorrectly have a right to trial by peers.

Schools and Business

  1. Schools should embrace Businesses as partners.
  2. Schools must embrace the virtues of a competitive market place. Much of the world's knowledge is locked up in Businesses. Businesses have a lot to offer schools, and schools have a lot to offer businesses. Businesses would benefit by cooperating with schools by having bragging rights, advertisement rights, recruiting rights.
  3. Kids need to know that they are going to have to fit into a business atmosphere. Business leaders could give students encouragement to gain a better education.
  4. Teachers must be familiar with the business world.
  5. Schools should let business people from the community teach classes, weather they have a teacher's certificate or not.
  6. Set up an exchange system with businesses where teachers go to work for businesses some times, and business people come in and teach
  7. We should let businesses advertise on anything that they donate. We are not communists. For instance
*Paper, Pencils, Chairs, Computers.
*Have a list of things the school needs.

Libraries

Ideas:

  1. Schools should have a place where people can just study a subject. Provide a test and let them get credit for a class.
  2. Let students stay in library to study after school. Announce. Ask teachers to be all together to, if they have to stay after school. Provide music. Teachers can grade papers, detintion. Let them use computers. Let star-bucks go on the schools, were people hang out and talk.

Test:

Ideas:

  1. Have a section of info they will have to know. Easy things that everyhone has got to understand. Could tell them befor hand what they would have to know

Teachers

  1. Teachers can all stay together in their own corner, or they can stay so kids can talk to them. They can bring music, food, ext.

May 28, 2006

A New Open-Source Politics

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/13006799/site/newsweek

Just as Linux lets users design their own operating systems, so 'netroots' politicos may redesign our nominating system.


  MSNBC.com

A New Open-Source Politics
Just as Linux lets users design their own operating systems, so 'netroots' politicos may redesign our nominating system.

Newsweek

June 5, 2006 issue - Bob Schieffer of CBS News made a good point on "The Charlie Rose Show" last week. He said that successful presidents have all skillfully exploited the dominant medium of their times. The Founders were eloquent writers in the age of pamphleteering. Franklin D. Roosevelt restored hope in 1933 by mastering radio. And John F. Kennedy was the first president elected because of his understanding of television.

Will 2008 bring the first Internet president? Last time, Howard Dean and later John Kerry showed that the whole idea of "early money" is now obsolete in presidential politics. The Internet lets candidates who catch fire raise millions in small donations practically overnight. That's why all the talk of Hillary Clinton's "war chest" making her the front runner for 2008 is the most hackneyed punditry around. Money from wealthy donors remains the essential ingredient in most state and local campaigns, but "free media" shapes the outcome of presidential races, and the Internet is the freest media of all.

No one knows exactly where technology is taking politics, but we're beginning to see some clues. For starters, the longtime stranglehold of media consultants may be over. In 2004, Errol Morris, the director of "The Thin Blue Line" and "The Fog of War," on his own initiative made several brilliant anti-Bush ads (they featured lifelong Republicans explaining why they were voting for Kerry). Not only did Kerry not air the ads, he told me recently he never even knew they existed. In 2008, any presidential candidate with half a brain will let a thousand ad ideas bloom (or stream) online and televise only those that are popular downloads. Deferring to "the wisdom of crowds" will be cheaper and more effective.

Open-source politics has its hazards, starting with the fact that most people over 35 will need some help with the concept. But just as Linux lets tech-savvy users avoid Microsoft and design their own operating systems, so "netroots" political organizers may succeed in redesigning our current nominating system. But there probably won't be much that's organized about it. By definition, the Internet strips big shots of their control of the process, which is a good thing. Politics is at its most invigorating when it's cacophonous and chaotic.

To begin busting up the dumb system we have for selecting presidents, a bipartisan group will open shop this week at Unity08.com. This Internet-based third party is spearheaded by three veterans of the antique 1976 campaign: Democrats Hamilton Jordan and Gerald Rafshoon helped get Jimmy Carter elected; Republican Doug Bailey did media for Gerald Ford before launching the political TIP SHEET Hotline. They are joined by the independent former governor of Maine, Angus King, and a collection of idealistic young people who are also tired of a nominating process that pulls the major party candidates to the extremes. Their hope: to get even a fraction of the 50 million who voted for the next American Idol to nominate a third-party candidate for president online and use this new army to get him or her on the ballot in all 50 states. The idea is to go viral—or die. "The worst thing that could happen would be for a bunch of old white guys like us to run this," Jordan says.

The Unity08 plan is for an online third-party convention in mid-2008, following the early primaries. Any registered voter could be a delegate; their identities would be confirmed by cross-referencing with voter registration rolls (which would also prevent people from casting more than one ballot). That would likely include a much larger number than the few thousand primary voters who all but nominate the major party candidates in Iowa and New Hampshire. This virtual process will vote on a centrist platform and nominate a bipartisan ticket. The idea is that even if the third-party nominee didn't win, he would wield serious power in the '08 election, which will likely be close.

There are plenty of ways for this process to prove meaningless, starting with the major parties deciding to nominate independent-minded candidates like John McCain (OK, the old McCain) or Mark Warner. Third-party efforts have usually been candidate-driven, and the centrist names tossed around by way of example (Chuck Hagel, Sam Nunn, Tom Kean) don't have much marquee value in the blogosphere. And the organizers would have to design safeguards to keep the whole thing from being hijacked.

But funny things happen in election years. With an issue as eye-glazing as the deficit, a wacky, jug-eared Texan named Ross Perot received 19 percent of the vote in 1992 and 7 percent in 1996. He did it with "Larry King Live" and an 800 number. In a country where more than 40 percent of voters now self-identify as independents, it's no longer a question of whether the Internet will revolutionize American politics, but when.

For more, go to JonathanAlter.com

© 2006 MSNBC.com

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/13006799/site/newsweek/

May 27, 2006

Did a blog search for Mitt Romney

There is a lott of Mitt-miss-information out there, but with all the people in these groups, with all the possible Mitt supporters, I think we could respond to a good portion of the missleading post.

For instance, from : http://republicanbydesign.com/wordpress/2006/05/2008-mitt-romney-for-president

"The investigative report continues. Mitt Romney is sometimes touted as a pro-life conservative. Given the right forum, he will even claim to be pro-life. But like other chamelons previously covered in this blog, Romney's record deserves closer scrutiny."

"Romney on Marriage. Romney's positions here are clear-cut. He refused to support Massachuetts' 2003 Protection of Marriage act. He has been backed by Log Cabin Republicans and other gay groups; he even met with them before the Massachusetts Gubernatorial election. He brought gay activists onto his camp and into his team early on in the process."

"In his 1994 race challenging Ted Kennedy for U.S. Senate, Mitt Romney told the Massachusetts Log Cabin Republicans that " as we seek to establish full equality for America's gay and lesbian citizens, I will provide more effective leadership than my opponent." When competing with Ted Kennedy for the endorsement of the Massachusetts Log Cabin Republicans, Romney received the endorsement."

"Don't let Romney's recent attempts to soften his image (saying that he thinks marriage is one man and one woman) full you. Romney actively supports gay rights."

Could this be someone's honest opinion? I don't think so. I think they don't like Romney, and so they are willing to lie or at least be blatantly dishonest, in order to harm him. Lying is not a good republican principle.

Going to the Wikipedia site, this is what I find on Romney and Marrage. Why would a republican blogger be more anti-mitt than Wikipedia?

Same-sex marriage

Romney has strongly opposed same-sex marriage and civil unions . He has continually stressed the need to protect the institution of marriage while denouncing discrimination against gays and lesbians. "Like me, the great majority of Americans wish both to preserve the traditional definition of marriage and to oppose bias and intolerance directed towards gays and lesbians," said Romney in a 2004 interview. [26]

Romney was heavily involved in attempts to block implementation of the decision of the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court that legalized same-sex marriage in 2003. Romney criticized the decision as harming the rights of children:

"They viewed marriage as an institution principally designed for adults. Adults are who they saw. Adults stood before them in the courtroom. And so they thought of adult rights, equal rights for adults ... Marriage is also for children. In fact, marriage is principally for the nurturing and development of children. The children of America have the right to have a father and a mother." [27]

In 2004, he backed an amendment in the General Court that would have banned same-sex marriage and established civil unions. The amendment passed the legislature in 2004, but Romney changed his mind and opposed the same amendment (which needed to be passed by the legislature twice and then approved by voters in a referendum to go into effect) in September 2005, claiming that the amendment confused voters who oppose both gay marriage and civil unions. The amendment was defeated in the legislature in 2005 when both supporters of same-sex marriage and opponents of civil unions voted against it. In June 2005, Romney endorsed a petition effort by the Coalition for Marriage and Family that would ban gay marriage and make no provisions for civil unions. [28]

The Romney Administration resurrected the "1913 law", which prohibits non-residents from marrying in Massachusetts if the marriage would be void in their home state and had not been enforced for several decades. Some legal experts have argued that the original purpose of the legislation was to block interracial marriages and have noted that the law was enacted at the height of public scandal over black heavyweight boxer Jack Johnson's interracial marriages [29] [30] , while Massachusetts Attorney General Thomas Reilly has stated that the law had nothing to do with race. [31] In March of 2006 the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court declared the statute legal under the state's constitution. [32] Romney applauded the decision, saying that the "ruling is an important victory for traditional marriage." He also stated that "It would have been wrong for the Supreme Judicial Court to impose its mistaken view of marriage on the rest of the country. The continuing threat of the judicial redefinition of marriage, here and in several other states, is why I believe that the best and most reliable way to preserve the institution of marriage is to pass an amendment to the U.S. Constitution." [33]

Romney also testified to the U.S. House of Representatives, urging it to pass the Federal Marriage Amendment.

When he ran for governor in 2002, Romney declared his opposition to both same-sex marriage and civil unions. [34] He also voiced support for basic domestic partnership benefits for gay couples. Romney told the Log Cabin Club of Massachusetts (a Republican gay-rights group) that he did not support same-sex marriage, but would fight discrimination against gays and lesbians. He also opposed an amendment, then before the Legislature, that would have banned same-sex marriage and outlawed all domestic partnership benefits for gay couples. As a result, the Log Cabin Club endorsed Romney in the gubernatorial election. [35]. When campaigning in 2002, Romney's stated position was that "all citizens deserve equal rights, regardless of sexual orientation" and that "homosexuals should have the right to a domestic partnership status that affords them the potential for health benefits and rights of survivorship." [36]

During his 1994 campaign against Senator Edward Kennedy, Romney said that same-sex marriage "is not appropriate at this time" [3] but supported Federal legislation that would prohibit discrimination in the workplace against homosexuals. [4]

Further information: Same-sex marriage in Massachusetts
Next, our scholars over at "republicans by design" say the following:

Romney on Abortion. Romney has stated in various sources that he is "personally pro-life" and personally things abortion is impermissible except in cases of the life of the mother, rape, and incest. But when we look beyond the rhetoric, we see an entirely different story.

Let's say it directly. Mitt Romney defends a woman's so-called "right to choose."

In his 1994 Senate campaign, he told Joe Battenfield of the Boston Herald that he became firmly committed to legalized abortion after a relative died in an illegal abortion. He stated that this made him see "that regardless of one's beliefs about choice, you would hope it would be safe and legal."

He spoke about the incident in a 1994 debate with Ted Kennedy when he was challenging Kennedy for the Senate. He said: "'Many years ago, I had a dear, close family relative that was very close to me who passed away from an illegal abortion. It is since that time my mother and my family have been committed to the belief that we can believe as we want, but we will not force our beliefs on others on that matter. And you will not see me wavering on that."

In his 2003 race for Governor of Massachusetts, he stated: "Let me make this very clear: I will preserve and protect a woman's right to choose."

When he ran for Governor of Massachusetts, he promised that he would not change abortion laws either to restrict or to facilitate abortion.

In his response to a NARAL questionnaire during the campaign, he said: "I respect and will protect a woman's right to choose. This choice is a deeply personal one. 'Women should be free to choose based on their own beliefs, not mine and not the government's."

And though Romney opposed federal funding of Abortion in 1994, he supported it in 2002-2003.

Once again, here is the truth from Wikipedia:

Abortion

Romney has identified himself as a pro-life politician. He does not support abortion except in cases of rape, incest, and when the life of a mother is threatened. [45] Romney has been a vocal opponent of the Supreme Court decision in Roe v. Wade, criticizing the "one size fits all" statute created by the ruling. [46] The Governor believes each state should have the right to determine its own abortion laws, voicing support for efforts in states such as South Dakota to regulate abortion within its borders.[47]

Prior to his run for governor Romney told a newspaper in Salt Lake City Utah that he did not want to be classified as a "pro-choice" politician.[48]

During the 2002 governor's race, Romney voiced his personal opposition to abortion, but promised to maintain the Massachusetts abortion laws if elected. Romney's platform stated, "As Governor, Mitt Romney would protect the current pro-choice status quo in Massachusetts. No law would change. The choice to have an abortion is a deeply personal one. Women should be free to choose based on their own beliefs, not the government's." [49] Although he told voters that he was personally opposed to abortion, Romney said that he would respect the will of the pro-choice majority in Massachusetts. Referenceing the established abortion laws in Massachusetts, Romney said that he would "preserve and protect a woman's right to choose...I will not change any provisions in Massachusetts' pro-choice laws."[50]

Romney has said that his views on abortion have "evolved" and "changed" since 2002 such that he now considers himself a "pro-life governor" who wishes "the laws of our nation could reflect that view." [51] [52]

In 1994, Romney also said that he was personally opposed to abortion. He also said that he became committed to legalized abortion after the death of a family friend in an illegal abortion made him see "that regardless of one's beliefs about choice, you would hope it would be safe and legal."

"Many years ago, I had a dear, close family relative that was very close to me who passed away from an illegal abortion," Romney said in a televised debate opposite Senator Edward Kennedy. "It is since that time my mother and my family have been committed to the belief that we can believe as we want, but we will not force our beliefs on others on that matter. And you will not see me wavering on that." The person Romney was referring to was a teenage girl engaged to marry a member of Romney's extended family. Romney's sister Jane has said that the girl's death changed the family's perspective on the legality of abortion. "With my mom, that was a personal thing because we had a tragedy close to us -- not in our immediate family, but a young girl who actually was engaged and had an illegal abortion and died." "She was a beautiful, talented young gal we all loved. And it pretty much ruined the parents -- their only daughter. You would do anything not to repeat that." [53]

Romney has said he has kept his campaign promises. Romney vetoed an emergency contraception bill in July 2005, claiming that allowing it to pass into law would violate his "moratorium" on changes to the abortion laws. [54] Romney's critics accuse him of grandstanding for the purpose of polishing up his pro-life credentials, for a possible run for the presidency in 2008.

Stem cell research

Although Romney has stated that he supports the use of surplus embryos from fertility clinics for stem-cell research, he vetoed a Massachusetts bill to fund stem-cell research because the legislation allowed the cloning of human embryos. "I am not in favor of creating new human embryos through cloning," said Romney, calling the practice a "a matter of profound moral and ethical consequence." Romney also opposed the legislation because of its assertion that life does not begin until an embryo is implanted in a uterus. "It is very conceivable that scientific advances will allow an embryo to be grown for a substantial period of time outside the uterus," Romney said in an interview with the Boston Globe. "To say that it is not life at one month or two months or four months or full term, just because it had never been in a uterus, would be absurd." [55][56] The state legislature overrode Romney's veto, with many legislators feeling that stem-cell research will be important in the future to the state's biotech industry. [57].

He ends his post with this: "My take on Romney: This Massachusetts Mormon is a completely unacceptable option for conservatives." I guess he is one of the many people in this country that says that a Mormon has no right to hold Government office in this country, or am I reading more into his statement than he said?

I'm reading "Reading Lolita in Tehran". It is a book about someone who taught banned books from the west when Iotola Humany took over. She lived threw the hostage thing up until the 90's. She lived in a world were people got their positions based on their religious beliefs. And their reasoning or ability to defend their beliefs with logic was not necisary to advance withing the political landscape. The most important thing was the extremism with which you fealt your beliefs, the more extreme the better. It is a great book. It says that what happened to Lolita is what happened to all Iranian wemon--their lives were taken away, to fullfill an impossible dream of a madman.

I like the quote:

It is not bigotry to be certain we are right; but it is bigotry to be unable to imagine how we might possibly have gone wrong. G. K. Chesterton (1874 - 1936)
I believe Mitt Romney has questioned his own beliefs about Abortion. The author of the blog calously mentions the fact the someone in Romney's family died of a back ally abortion. Wouldn't you have second thoughts? Romney described himself as pro-life, but told the people of Taxachusets that he would not impose his beliefs. In essence he was giving his belief that each state should decide. Proving that Romney respects those with different beliefs, and respects their ability to choose for themselves. He isn't going to impose his beliefs on the state of taxachusets, but he will advocate his position, and push to let the people decide for themselves. Let the states decide!

I don't know. I don't have enough time to give it a better effort than this, but stop by his site, and give him your opinion, if you can...

May 14, 2006

I agree with Mitt: We should have merit pay for teachers

Good teachers should make more money than bad teachers.

Reasons to agree
  1. Society should reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. (reasons to agree & disagree)
  2. Wiling and eager labor is impossible without incentive.
  3. Of all forms of incentive – the freedom to attain a reward for one's labors is the most sustaining for most people. Sometimes called THE PROFIT MOTIVE, it is simply the right to plan and to earn and to enjoy the fruits of your labor.
  4. There is no reasons that the number of years you have taught should be the only thing that affects your pay.
Reasons to disagree
  1. Teacher's with Master's degrees already get paid more.
  2. A student's performance depends on more than just a teacher's influence. Parents involvement is probably the biggest factor.
Wiling and eager labor is impossible without incentive (From above)
Reasons to agree:
  1. Of all forms of incentive – the freedom to attain a reward for one's labors is the most sustaining for most people. Sometimes called THE PROFIT MOTIVE, it is simply the right to plan and to earn and to enjoy the fruits of your labor. (reasons to agree  & disagree)

May 13, 2006

Re: “Mitt Romney Doesn't Care About Gay Youth”

http://pasquinader.blogspot.com/2006/05/mitt-romney-doesnt-care-about-gay.html

You infer that "Mitt Romney Doesn't Care About Gay Youth" because he does not want them to participate in a parade. However, even a lot of Gay people even think the parades have gone too far. Some people think that homophobia would't be so bad if people wern't constantly trying to shove gay culture down our throats.

  http://www.tvguide.com/TV/Roush/AskMatt/default.htm?cmsRedir=true&rmDate=01202006&cmsGuid={56A3322C-418F-4190-B89B-44028E065DB1}&cmsSrch=true

 Lets just get this out of the way. Mitt Romney said, "Like me, the great majority of Americans wish both to preserve the traditional definition of marriage and to oppose bias and intolerance directed towards gays and lesbians."

 Re: "Just, wow. When I let my guard down and think, hey, maybe Mitt Romney has the capability to feel for people who have different lifestyles than him, he pulls something so audacious and cruel that it actually physically sickens me."

 What has he done that physically sickens you? The fact that he was physically sickened by what happened at last years paraded? Do you think the government should be advocating, and celebrating teenage sex, weather it is strait or gay?

 Re: "This is a programs that helps kids feel like suicide is not the only way out for them. This is a program that keeps gay kids from having the shit kicked out of them at school. I don't care what your political beliefs are, you don't disband an agency that keeps kids safe. Can you imagine if a kid got pummeled for being openly religious at school? Mitt would have every agency in the state on that case. But the queers? Fuck them."

 Lets all just settle down. Give us proof that this agency keeps kids safe.

 Re: "Conservative activists apparently showed Mitt images that "physically sickened" him, thus making him upset that the parade would happen with his blessing."

What is with calling them "Conservative activist". How did they get that title? Do you know them? Why don't you just call them people? People with different beliefs than you.

 Re: "Oh my God! The queers! They're ruining Boston ! Men dressed as women?! Horrific!"

 No not men, kids. And not just any kids, government sponsored kids. How would you feel if government money was spent on a pro strait parade, and high school kids paraded down the street fondling each other? Would that be a good use of government money?

 Re: "Listen, Mr. Camenker, here is a news flash: men dress as women. Sometimes, it's used for comedy. Other times, it's how someone identifies themselves. It's not like people become trans gender or gay for fun. The hatred of homosexuals and transgendered people in this country is open and nasty, and people just don't say, "Hey, being gay and wondering on a daily basis if I'm going to be beaten to death sounds great! Sign me up!" Just this week, a study showed that lesbian's brains respond like men's brains, thus lending more credence to the theory that homosexuality has a physiological basis."

 Mitt Romney never said that people aren't born gay. You associate him with all of this hatred, just because he canceled a parade.

 Re: "People are gay and transgendered. End of story."

 No one is arguing. He canceled a parade.

 Re: "It's disgusting, isn't it? And it wasn't THAT long ago that Mormons had to flee from places lest they be beat up. You'd think that would give Mitt a little empathy. On the other hand, I'm not entirely sure he's even human. He may very well have been grown in a vat in Provo."

 According to your logic the only way of showing empathy, or not showing empathy is weather or not you have a parade for something. Should we have a Mormon, Baptist, Jewish, Republican, Smoker, Non-Smoker… parades?

 Re: "See? This is why I'm going to get involved with the campaign of one of the Dems running for gov. of this state. I'll be damned if I sit back and let any more bigoted asshats have power in MA."

 Mitt Romney is bigoted because he canceled a parade? Don't you think you are oversimplifying the issue? See my arguments above.

 Re: "Gravatar Okay, so the safety of Gay and Lesbian teenagers everywhere depends on having a parade every year? Call me crazy but I have a hard time believing that a single gay, lesbian, or transgendered teenager would commit suicide if an organization like this were to be shut down. This post seems a little harsh to me."

 Right on Jay!

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from Iowa: "For me and others, interest in Romney ended when we discovered he's one of those weird underwear-wearing Mormons"

Re: "I don't get why some Republicans like Mitt Romney, the Governor of Taxachewshits. For me and others, interest in Romney ended when we discovered he's one of those weird underwear-wearing Mormons."
Here is an example of one person, in his own words, explain why he would not vote for a Mormon. Apparently no one from the Mormon religion is good, and everyone from the Mormon religion is bad.  
Re: "Look at the dude. Lantern-jawed, excellent physical shape, jet black hair with graying temples, crisp suit, and too long in the tanning booth. He's a caricature of your slick and soulless politician."
So we can judge people by there looks now? Should we only vote fore people that are out of shape? That don't have gray hair? That don't tuck their shirts in? If you want to hate someone, you can say they don't have a soul. You can say they are no longer people. That makes it easy to hate them.  However, everyone on this planet has a soul no matter how hard you try to demonize them.
re: "Anyway, according to the Boston Glob, Romney was in Iowa this past weekend giving a commencement speech at Coe College in Cedar Rapids. You remember Coe College , right? It's the place that hosted a huge anti-Semitic conference last year. Freaks!"
Allright, so you start off your post with some of the most hateful bigoted stuff I have ever heard, and then you get mad at anti-Semitics, and try to somehow say that Mitt is Anti-Semitic because of a protest that was there last year? It is very ironic that none of the anti-mitt sites allow people to post comments.
What an idiot.
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