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You should try to take pictures with loved one's on Holidays

Reasons to agree:

  1. People need holidays

Images that agree:(some stolen from Megan's Website)


2011, Easter
1978 or 1979. Bobbie, Earl, Me, Dad, Bro

Basement sump pumps are annoying +1

Reasons to agree:
  1. If you have a sump pump, it will fail. When it fails, is probably during a rain storm, when you need it to work. Crawl spaces in Illinois fill with water, if you don't have a sump pump, for some reason. 
Images that agree: (stolen from Megan's Website)
Our sump pump runs quote often, when it rains, leaving a pond which we tell the kids not to play in.

You should get a membership to The Chicago Field Museum +0

Reasons to agree: 4
  1. The Chicago Field Museum has Sue, the largest and most complete Tyrannosaurus skeleton currently known.
  2. A visit to a museum is not as educational as reading a book, but it is educational enough. 
    1. Not as educational as reading a book
      1. In order for something to be very educational something has to go into depth. Reading plaques in front of stuffed animals is not very in depth. 
    2. ... it is educational enough
      1. At a museum you get to brows a bunch of topic. I guess the goal is that you find something that is interesting, and then you can go somewhere else and learn more later.
  3. With no guided tour you can do whatever you want. You get out of it, like most life, what you put in. Perhaps instead of rushing from thing to thing, find a few things you are interested in and then really experience that thing. Perhaps bring a sketch pad and draw stuff.
  4. The Chicago Field Museum is a short walk from Northerly Island, which offers parking for a dollar an hour, so parking doesn't have to cost very much, if you can walk 3/4 to a 1.5 miles.
  1. The idea to have self guided tour through a museum was a bad one.
  2. The experience of visiting a museum feels so separate from normal life, that it often has no affect on normal life. 
  3. Museums need to make a specific call to action, with good arguments. What is the call to action? To become a biologist? To become a fossil hunter? Archaeological? Gemologist? Museums have a very broad charter but they should set very specific goals, shouldn't they? To facilitate research? Is that done better by looking at books, or visiting a museum. Often visiting a museum can become just walking around and looking at "curiosities". Which is fine enough, I guess. Does Khan Acadamy do more education than the field museum? 
  4. You may end up going only to have your kids tell you they are afraid to see the "mommies" (ie mummies) and the Animals, because they remind them of death and give them nightmares.
Score:
# of reasons to agree: +4
# of reasons to disagree: -4
# of reasons to agree with reasons to agree: +0
# of reasons to agree with reasons to disagree: -0
Total Idea Score: +0

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Websites that agree:
  1. Laub Life: "Field Museum of Dreams"
  2. http://fieldmuseum.org/

Baby Phil is sort of like a dog

Reasons to agree:

  1. He likes to carry things in his mouth (see images below for verification). 
  2. He likes to dig in the dirt. 


Images that agree:

Ali Loves the Trampoline, James Loves His Bike, and Phil Loves Pots of Dirt.

You should get a Shed Aquarium Membership +3

Reasons to agree: +3
  1. Animals are cool. The shed aquarium has lots of animals. They have dolphins, a beluga whale.
  2. They let kids dress up as penguins. 
  3. They have a spot with strong animals, that they let the kids play with.
  4. If you want to have the Chicago Experience, the Shedd is in Chicago, and has a nice view. 
  1. The Shed Aquarium is cool and stuff, but they have dolphins at the Brookfield Zoo, and they have other types of animals too, but the parking is included with the cost of the Brookfield Zoo. And the Shedd Aquarium cost about $175, while the Brookfield Zoo is $92. The Brookfield Zoo has Manta ray Bay that lets you touch animals similar to the thing at the Shedd. You have to pay to do it, but still it is less money than the Shed. 
Score:
# of reasons to agree: +4
# of reasons to disagree: -1
# of reasons to agree with reasons to agree: +0
# of reasons to agree with reasons to disagree: -0
Total Idea Score: +3

Webpages that agree:
  1. Laub Life, Aquarium Adventure
  2. http://www.sheddaquarium.org/



You should go to the Naperville Last Fling +2

Reasons to agree: +4
  1. The last fling has petting zoos, pony rides, presentations. 
  2. A parade (never watched).
  3. Parking is good.
  4. Naperville has good free public parking, which is good. 
  1. The rides are overpriced. 
  2. The food is unhealthy.
Score:
# of reasons to agree: +4
# of reasons to disagree: -2
# of reasons to agree with reasons to agree: +0
# of reasons to agree with reasons to disagree: -0
Total Idea Score: +2
Websites that agree: +3
  1. Laub Life: Last Fling-Ding
  2. http://www.lastfling.org/
Images that agree:

      Chicago Land has lots of stuff to do, that don't cost too much.

      Reasons to agree: +6
      1. If you are lucky you can find parallel parking for free around Lincoln Park Zoo.
      2. Parking is $1.00 an hour, if you can find any, near Northerly Island. I drove there with 2 bikes in  my car, and my 7 year old son, and we rode to Millennium Park and back. 
      3. Kids ride the Metra free on the weekends. 
      4. The Water Tower Place Mall does parking validation. 
      5. It costs $7 per adult to ride to Chicago Union Station (week-end passes, kids ride free). From there you can walk to a number of places:
        1. Millennium Park. 
          1. In the summer, kids can play in the fountain. Bring towels, and a change of clothes. It is sort of white trash, but they can change in the bathrooms. 
          2. Each time you go down the kids will probably want to look at the bean, and get their photo taken.
          3. I should probably walk the whole park once. Their are some statues on the south end I have never seen. 
        2. Winter
          1. Kris Kringle Market Chicago 
        3. We walked, with 3 kids, and 2 strollers, all the way to the Hancock Building. It was a pretty long walk. When we got back to Navy Pear we took a water taxi bat to Union Station, to save our legs, and to make a train.
      6. Apparently a portion of the Field Museum is free. Parking is not free, and I don't think a train will get you there. If you walk from Union Station, head straight for the lake, as some of the neighborhood between the two can be a little dicey. I guess you could ride a buss, but figuring out a train schedule is pushing it for me, as I don't make it into the city very often. Adding a bus schedule might be a little much. Also I don't like cabs, but you can figure your own life out, OK?
      Reasons to disagree: -5
      1. Sales tax is high in Chicago.
      2. It costs $20 at a minimum to park in Chicago. 
      3. It cost $7 for a weekend pass. So if you want to go in as a couple it costs $14 just to get there. 
      4. The Stained Glass Museum, Navy Pier is boring. Who cares?
      5. The Frank Gehry-designed Jay Pritzker Pavilion may be "the most sophisticated outdoor concert venue of its kind in the United States" but it is more likely the best example of overly ornate-as-a-substitution-for-sophisticated" outdoor museum in the USA. It is not worth going to, just to look at, unless their is a concert. 
      6. Navy Peer is kind of stupid... They have a Ferris-Wheel, but so does the state fair... sure it gives you a great view, but so does walking along the beach. Then there is not much else to see. OK. OK. I've never actually paid to ride the Ferris-Wheel. I hear it is sort of cool. In fact, I wouldn't mind going on it... But I imagine if your drove a long way to See Chicago, and all you did was go to Navy Peer, which I imagine some people do... then you would probably be disappointing .. I only critisize it because I am amazed at how many millions of people visit it each year... I don't hat crowds as much as my wife, and so I wouldn't mind going back.
      Score:
      # of reasons to agree: +6
      # of reasons to disagree: --6
      # of reasons to agree with reasons to agree: +7/2 = 3.5
      # of reasons to agree with reasons to disagree: -0
      Total Idea Score: +4.5

      My son at Millennium Park on our Chicago Bike Ride

      You don't have to pay anything to look at this brachiosaurus outside the Chicago Field Museum.

      Chicago has better museums, cultural exhibits, and attractions than Denver

      Reasons to agree: +8
      1. The Illinois Train Museum in Union IL is a good place to take your kids. Denver doesn't have anything like that+3
      2. The Chicago Art Institute is a better Art Museum than the Denver Art Museum. +3
      3. The Chicago Shed Aquarium is better than any sort of ocean life exhibit in the Denver area.+3
      4. The Chicago Field Museum is better than the Denver Field Museum. +0
      5. Chicago has a good Science and Industry museum. Denver doesn't have anything like this. They have a natural science museum that compares to Chicago's Field Museum. 
      6. Chicago has a pretty cool planetarium. Denver doesn't have anything like that. 
      7. Chicago has way more square footage of museums than Denver. Depth and variety are good ways of measuring museums qualities. This is much easier to achieve with more square footage. 
      8. Chicago has a rich history with jazz music, with places that you can still go to. Denver doesn't have anything like that. 
      9. More important history and important things happened in Chicago than Denver. Its history is not as rich as Europe, or other places over seas, but it has a pretty good history.
      1. Denver has better Dinosaur exhibits than Chicago, even though Chicago has Sue (the most complete Tyrannosaurus Rex skeleton) and other Dinosaurs. Much of Chicago's rocks from ancient times was scrapped away in the Ice Ages. 
      2. Chicago got red of their Elephants at their museum. If you really care about elephants, I guess the Denver zoo is better than the Brookfield and Lincoln zoos. 
      Websites that agree:
      1. Laub Life: Field Museum of Dreams
      Score:
      # of reasons to agree: +4
      # of reasons to disagree: -
      # of reasons to agree with reasons to agree: +(+4+3+3)/2 =  +5
      # of reasons to agree with reasons to disagree: -0
      Total Idea Score: +9

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      Background Context and Assumptions
      The quality of Museums is an important way comparing cities.

      1. Going to museums is a good ways of learning stuff, and traveling the world without jet lag. 
      2. The quality of museums are a way of measuring the education, sophistication, and commitment to the arts. 
      3. The people that work at, cultivate, maintain, and visit the museums make each community better educated, and better integrated with the wold's communities. 

      Chicagoland has cool sculputres

      Images that agree:

        • Ali @ the Mortin Arboratum, Aug 11, 2012
        • James @ the Mortin Arboratum, Aug 11, 2012
        • James and Ali at the Brookfield Zoo. The lion is fighting a snake. Locate at: N 41° 50.100 W 087° 50.075

      There is a price to strength, but a greater price to weakness, because weakness tempts aggression

      Supporting Evidence

      Logical Arguments:

      1. Strength deters aggression: Strong entities, be it individuals, organizations, or nations, often deter potential aggressors by showcasing their capacity to retaliate or protect themselves. On a global scale, this is evident in the concept of deterrence theory in international relations.

      2. Weakness invites exploitation: Entities perceived as weak can become targets for more aggressive entities that seek to exploit their vulnerabilities. This can manifest in various ways, from cyberattacks on vulnerable systems to geopolitical moves against weaker states.

      Supporting Evidence (Data, Studies):

      1. Studies in geopolitics and international relations support the idea that strong nations tend to face fewer overt threats than weaker ones. For instance, research by Jervis (1978) on the "Deterrence Theory of War" underlines this.

      Supporting Books:

      1. "The Logic of Violence in International Relations" by Robert Jervis

      Supporting Videos:

      1. A range of YouTube videos and lectures on geopolitics and international relations theory, such as those available from the channel 'Caspiancey.'

      Supporting Organizations and their Websites:

      1. Council on Foreign Relations
      2. International Studies Association

      Supporting Podcasts:

      1. "The World Next Week" by CFR

      Unbiased Experts:

      1. Scholars in the field of international relations, such as John Mearsheimer and Robert Jervis

      Opposing Evidence

      Logical Arguments:

      1. Strength can provoke escalation: Displaying overt strength can sometimes provoke a response from potential aggressors, leading to an escalation of conflict.

      2. Diplomacy over force: Advocates for diplomacy and negotiation argue that it's more effective to resolve conflicts and deter aggression.

      Supporting Evidence (Data, Studies):

      1. Research has shown that diplomatic measures can successfully resolve conflicts and deter aggression. One example is a study by Fortna (2003) titled "Scraps of Paper? Agreements and the Durability of Peace."

      Supporting Books:

      1. "Diplomacy" by Henry Kissinger

      Supporting Videos:

      1. Numerous TED talks and other online videos advocate for diplomacy and soft power, like Joseph Nye's lectures on Soft Power.

      Supporting Organizations and their Websites:

      1. The Diplomatic Courier
      2. American Diplomacy

      Supporting Podcasts:

      1. "Global Dispatches – World News That Matters" by Mark Leon Goldberg

      Unbiased Experts:

      1. Experts who advocate for diplomacy and soft power, such as Joseph Nye.

      Further Exploration:

      For a more comprehensive pro/con analysis and collective intelligence, visit Group Intel and Idea Stock Exchange.

      Kids do and say funny things

      Best reasons to agree: +


        1. James' special power is that he has a shovel. James said he's not afraid of geese because he has a special power. His special power is that he has a hammer.
        2. Your baby trying to get out. Ask Megan.
        3. James tried jumping really high on the trampoline so that he could see Finley in heaven.
        4. He told his mom, your hair is spicy. What does that mean, she asked. It means you need to wash it.

        Warning: comments may not be funny, however they are note worthy for me to note as a way to understand that people are different and that they see the world differently. 

        Constructing Jesus 
        April 22, 2012:

        I was making myself lunch, and my son James was in the kitchen eating tortilla chips and salsa. He had stayed home from church on dubious assertions that he was sick. I was listening to a Mormon Stories Podcast, but turned it off when the Circle the Wagons conference came on (I didn't want to explain to him what a Gay Mormon was, yet).

        James could tell it was talking about religion and he asked if it was "our church" they were talking about. I said yes. He then informed me that "Jesus made our church" (Mormons believe that Jesus re-established his church through Joseph Smith. I assumed that he must have heard this in Sunday School and that he wanted to have a theological discussion).

        I have been doubting my faith narrative, but want to let James find his own way, so I just asked if he thinks Jesus made our Church. His answer was: "Yes, its really old". I understood this statement to be a logical explanation of how we know Jesus made our church, that our doctrines can be traced back to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. It seemed to me that his Sunday school teachers had been pretty busy.

        I was using my good listening skills by reflecting what he said to me back to him. I said, "you think our Church is really old"? He said, "Yes... All the lights are broken".

        The light bulb went off, and I asked, "You think Jesus made our church, because it is really old?"

        "Yes"

        "James, I don't think Jesus made our Church".

        To which he said, "Well, why don't you just look it up on the internet?"

        So, if anyone knows a webpage that tracks which ward buildings Jesus physically constructed while he was here on earth, James and I would like to know.